Many thanks to you all for your replies, this forum has restored some of my lost confidence in barging? and the inherent problems that arise, shame mine started almost as soon as I did!
I'd like to answer the replies in order to make sure that I understand the content.
Charles - when you say that you lost ATF did this come out as a liquid or as a fine mist that covered everything? I am assuming as a liquid if you were able to collect it, could the black coating be from the breather - I originally thought I had an exhaust leak.
Chris - like yourself I only became aware of the component parts after researching the box on t'internet, talk about horses and stable doors!!
Balliol - I saw the drive plate setup on an exploded view of the gearbox but discounted this as the box seems to work fine astern. Still baffled about the black deposit though.
David - When I said that I lost forward drive strictly speaking that may have overstated the fact, what happened was that when the rattling started I immediately closed the throttle, and as I thought I may have picked up something around the prop engaged reverse, seemed OK so gingerly selected forward, prop turned but the box rattled violently and shook with any application of revs, terrible din.
Two days later after organising a tow the rattling was not as bad but I was doubtful about how long that would last, could that be because the box had cooled down maybe? Not confident enough to try this out and break down again, v costly.
Again thank you all for your input, this forum is certainly a mine of information and any thoughts and or suggestions will always be gratefully received - please keep them coming - a problem shared and all that.
Best regards
Bob Alexander